In the article Quine’s New Foundations of The Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy (Summer 2019 Edition), Thomas Forster writes:
In [1944] Hailperin gave the first of a number of finite axiomatisations of NF now known. Many of them exploit the function $x\mapsto \{y|x\in y\}$ which is injective and total and is an $\in$-isomorphism. This function was known to Whitehead, who suggested to Quine that $\{y|x\in y\}$ should be called the “essence” of $x$ (a terminology clearly suggested by a view of sets as properties-in-extension).
How did Alfred North Whitehead communicate the essential point of view to Quine?